Sex is a universal, non-verbal (most of the time) language. It’s suppose to be a deep connection that lover’s share. But what if the connection isnt so deep? What does it mean? If the physical attraction is there and the four-play gets you ready for take off…Why the hell cant you climax? Several factors can be the cause of the problem. Your job is to determine which one it is, and how you plan on moving forward. Hell it may be a fault of your own. But shouldnt your partner ensure that you have reached your full potential or higher? When the male is finished with his business, its over until he can decide to go for round two or at least get back “UP” again. Is there a right way of telling your partner that you havent seemed to find true satifaction in your love making sessions? Should you say anything at all? (more…)

fuck my life…

O_O   Gross.

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*disclaimer- the responses to these questions are strictly my opinions. You’re more than welcome to agree, or disagree in the comment section below.*

The question of the week is: Why do people cheat instead of leaving the person, or just moving onto someone new completely?

Before I even begin to answer that question, allow me to retreat a little bit, and define ‘cheating.’ (more…)

love met… love chased… love missed.

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“Met Her On Thursday”

You cant choose your family no matter how hard or how bad you want to.  Nobody is perfect, and people will only do what you allow them to do.  So my question to you today is… how much can you take from them?  Family can be such a beautiful thing, but it can also help you lose your sanity.   Because of the love that you have for them, you always find yourself wanting to help these people that you love when they seem to be in need.  You try to make a way out of no way, and try to be there as much as humanly possible.  However, there are those times when their struggle is over and you find your pockets high and dry, you find yourself overwhelmed and exhausted carrying all their problems on your back, and sometimes you just feel mad as hell because of a simple disagreement or misunderstanding.  So…what do you do? (more…)

It think its time to switch it up a bit. You heard my feeling and thoughts on things. No b-s-ing around, straight up, how it is work. Now it’s time for you to dig deeper. I want your imaginations to flow with my writings, but I still would like for you to gain something from it. We have all been through it… So lets see how it makes you feel.

My life is like a never-ending story unlike snow white and cinderella, i dont get my happily ever after. im still dealing with these bitches that fairytales call witches. im scrubbing these floors after them like a stepchild cinderella. and playing with my little forrest friends just make cleaning these floors that much harder. im still sitting on this pumpkin like a damn fool hoping it turns into a carriage. i could do much better than this shredded linen draped across my shoulders trying to be a dress…. a hot mess! oh Lord what next? My life is like a neverending story unlike snow white and cinderella, i dont get my happily ever after. i am still dealing with these 7 niggas that are that much short of a man…. Midgets… My doctor cant even fix my broken heart let alone prescribe me a pill. if you will, step to the side grumpy, cause your attitude is making me sleepy. Im trying to stay happy while you act all dopey and bashful, pretending that you want me to stay. The flowers that you picked out of my garden are making me sneezy. Man im not that easy. and again here comes one of those bitches that fairytales call witches trying to offer me some fruit. i know what happens next but i dont care i just wanna test my fate. …although i know theres no prince charming to wake me from this nightmare….. Ahhhh shit im still here! Cause my life is like a neverending story unlike snow white and cinderella, I dont get my happily ever after.

As I deal with the recent break-up of a whirl-wind 6 month relationship, I decided I needed to rebound and “test the waters” if you will…. Don’t judge, but the way I personally cope with breakups is by focusing my attention on another person, whether it be physically (sexual acts) or emotionally (like going on a simple date).

But recently, my “coping method” has failed me and completely back-fired. Regardless of what I am doing, my ex is on my mind. Even in the process of “rebounding” I am still thinking of him….

It’s obvious that there are still some unresolved feelings that remain, I want to move on and I’m trying to, it’s just really fucking hard. I feel trapped and cornered, like my mind is my arch nemesis, plaguing me and taunting me with constant memories of my ex.

Even If I were finally able to move on and start something new, would I be able to stop comparing my past relationship? That’s one of many questions I’m meditating on right now…

What a paradox: I’m attempting to move on and find something better, but at the same time, I am the main obstacle that is holding me back….

*any advice? what are your thoughts about this situation?